So, in short, Im alive, a bit nervous, and no longer doing the 88 Temples in Shikoku (really, I can’t say how sad this makes me, but I’m just not in the right place mentally to take it on at the moment).
Tohoku Earthquake and after update
23 03 2011Comments : 2 Comments »
Tags: earthquake, Japan, osaka, tokyo
Categories : general, travel
honne, giri and now tomo-choco
21 02 2011Valentine’s day has come and gone, but White day is now soon to come. “What’s White day?” I hear you say? Well, let Michele tell you about Valentine’s in Japan.
It’s weird. It’s not a celebration of love, but truly a mass commercial money-making holiday. You might think that’s true in your country too, but just wait till you hear about Japan. Firstly, the girls give the boys chocolate. Not the other way around. Girls are expected to give chocolate to not only their boyfriend/partner, but also to almost every male of their acquaintance. For the kids I teach, that means all their male classmates, club-mates and teachers, not including family and extras. And they will probably give chocolate to their female teachers as well. This kind of chocolate is called ‘giri-choco’ obligation chocolate. And then, they are also pushed (by the chocolate companies) to hand make the chocolates, or cookies, or cake, or whatever they decide on. The chocolate they give to their boyfriends is classed as ‘honne’ or kinda like their ‘real feelings’.

My giri-choco from this Valentine's day
I had one student who made an estimated 180 chocolates.
But, the boys (and teachers) don’t get away scott-free! One month later, on March 14 or White day, the boys are expected to return a gift. And although it doesn’t happen so much now, the return gift should be store bought and worth about 3 times what the girl gave them…. (So, in theory that student from before should get about 180 chocolates in return…)
However, White day is really badly timed for students. It’s around the end of the year, and certainly many private schools are on, or just about to start spring vacation around then. So the chocolate isn’t always returned. Recently the invention of ‘tomo-choco’ has become very very popular, as a way for girls to get an instant return. ‘Tomo-choco’ is friend chocolate, which can be given to your female friends, and you can receive ‘tomo-choco’ back on Valentine’s day. So the immediacy is very appealing.
This year I didn’t do all that well with Valentine’s (which frankly is a relief to me – having to give a return chocolate as an obligation is more of a pain than receiving anything), but I did get about 15 small baggies. And now with ‘tomo-choco’ it’s much more acceptable for me to give them a return pressie on Valentine’s day, rather than waiting until March, when I know I’m not actually going to be at school on White day. So thanks Meiji and Lotte and whoever came up with ‘tomo-choco’ for making life so much easier for me!

Even after VD I continued to get chocolate...
(but no thanks will be given for making girls obliged to make even more chocolate now…)
Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: culture, Food, Japan, valentine's day, white day
Categories : Food, general
QI: quite interesting? or quite inciting?
7 02 2011Recently the BBC announced that it cancelled plans to send Stephen Fry to Japan to make a documentary. This greatly saddens me, as I am a huge Fry fan, I love his work and I would be sure to enjoy not only one of my favourite personalities, but starring in a show about Japan. However I agree with the BBC. I think it’s a smart decision, because recently the BBC and Stephen Fry have come under fire in Japan over the following segment from a QI episode.
So, why has that got the BBC/Fry into trouble? Well, that’s something I’m still trying to figure out myself. Most native English speakers would probably agree that the show isn’t being insulting or offensive about or towards Yamaguchi, and is in fact being quite complementary about the Japanese rail system. On the surface the easy answer is that the majority of Japanese people don’t understand English and therefore don’t understand what’s going on in the program. If you can read Japanese, a lot of the comments are about the fact that the audience is laughing, and that this program is trivializing the horror of atomic weapons. So, in a way it’s true that the language barrier is one of the problems, but it also runs deeper than that.
The atomic bombs that were dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki are considered a taboo subject in Japan. It’s not that they are never talked about, I have been to both the Hiroshima Peace Memorial museum and the Nagasaki Atomic Bomb museum, and I can say they are the most sombre and reflective places you can visit in Japan. However in everyday life, the bombs and World War Two are just not talked about. And personally, as an Australian, it’s not a topic I would bring up with a Japanese person, although once I had a Japanese man apologise to me for the war, and another time a student was reading a book about a Harvard debate of wether the US should apologise for the bombs (incidentally, she’s 15 and doesn’t think the US should apologise).
The Japanese seem to feel a certain ownership of the bombs. The tragic loss of approximately 250,000 people within 5 years of the bombing and continued effects are a pretty damn good reason to be strong advocates against nuclear weapons. The impression you get when you go to the museums above is that this should never happen again.
And after a bit of thought, you would have to admit that certain parts of the segment are insensitive. For example, joking “the bomb landed on him, and it bounced off” and “it was the wrong(right) kind of bomb” certainly leave an opening for misunderstanding. To be honest, even I don’t understand some of the humour towards the end of the segment (which is probably more indicative of the decline in my English ability more than anything else). The BBC did issue an apology for ‘Japanese atomic bomb jokes’ and ‘any offence caused’ which was the appropriate thing to do.
However, none of the program was intended to be malicious, and the show did raise the level of awareness about Yamaguchi and other double bomb survivors, which most people would never have even known of in the first place. Yamaguchi and his fellows certainly were either very unlucky or lucky, depending on which way you choose to look at it. It was a topic fitting for a program whose name is an acronym of quite interesting, but maybe it’s not appropriate for a comedy show. I might not think that there was any harm in what QI did, but I will still try to understand why there was.
Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: atomic bomb, BBC, Hiroshima, Japan, nagasaki, QI, tv
Categories : general
drum roll please…..
29 04 2009Number 10) Japanese things – Firstly, disclaimer. I am not Otaku. I’m just a geek who likes manga. I actually haven’t watched/read anime/manga in a very long time. Over a year I think. But that doesn’t stop me from collecting anime figures…
They are very cheap and easy to find in Japan. Currently I have about 13 Rurouni Kenshin figures, 3 Oh! My Goddess figures, and a few Ghibli toys. But my figures aren’t just anime related, I also have Pirates of the Caribbean, The Labyrinth, Harry Potter, Star Wars…. Figures are very very easy to find and cheap in Japan. Also included in this category is Nihon-poi things. Things that are Japanese in style, form or design. Of course in Japan these things are also very easy to find and cheap. Just ask to see my collection of wrapping clothes
So, I suppose the final thing I love about Japan is the product range and availability. The land of retail!
Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: 10 things, figures, Japan, nihonpoi
Categories : general
10 things i love about you~
28 04 2009
All too often we tend to focus on the negative things in life. I’m a big believer in thinking positive makes you more positive. Recently I’ve been homesick, to the point that I’m counting down my time left in Japan (all two years… probably). So, today I wanted to compile a 10 point list of things I love about Japan, just to improve my thinking.
In no particular order –
1) Flowers – Japan is truly a country of four seasons, and one thing I love about that is spring is beautiful! Plum, Peach and then Cherry. Now Azaleas, Wisteria, and summer will bring Morning Glories and Hydrangeas. And that’s just a few of the blooms! So much variety, all year round. Japan is a flower lover’s dream.
2) My work – or more specifically, the lack of work. Only in Japan could you be paid to teach kids how to greet people with “yo”, and still be paid well. On top of that, the 4 months a year (plus some) that I have as paid vacation. I still don’t quite know how I managed to land this job.
3) My co-workers – Great people. If you don’t get along with your co-workers, then your job isn’t worth it. I don’t spend much time outside of work with these people as they all have families, but when it comes down to the crunch, they are dependable.
4) Eating out – Not only are restaurants in Japan relatively cheap (sometimes it can be cheaper to eat out rather than cook at home) but the variety in foods is brilliant. Within a ten minute walk from my house there is about 3 family restaurants, 1 Italian, 1 French, 2 Japanese, 1 Indian, 2 fast food, 1 hamburger steak…. Etc… And I live in the ‘countryside’….
5) Hiking – Within 3 hours by train there are a number of hikes, all various levels of difficulty, and all with something interesting to offer. As long as it’s good weather, then I will never be bored.
6) Museums – Tokyo has many many many museums. I don’t think anyone would ever be able to visit all (probably because there a number of small museums that don’t make it into English publications… but anyway). If the weather is bad, I’ll never be bored. Plus Japanese history and culture are fascinating to me!
7) Aeon Laketown – 5 words – Biggest Shopping Center in Japan! And its only 25 minutes from my place. If I don’t feel like going far, I still won’t get bored. Plus it has various restaurants, and a movie theater.
8) Living alone – this one is something of love/hate. I do love living alone. Only person I have to worry about is myself, I can stick to my own schedule, I can eat what I like, I don’t have to concern myself over other people’s mess. Conversely, it’s a bit lonely, and I have to do everything myself, and deal with my own mess.
9) Travel – There is so much to see in Japan. That’s one reason why I keep coming back. Once again, I don’t think anyone would ever be able to do everything. On the short list for places to visit soon-ish are Totori sand dunes, Hakone, Nikko, Kyushu, Shikoku, Okinawa, Zao, Yakushima, a check point town somewhere between here and Kyoto, ummmmm…. I’m sure that list will get longer….
10) And number 10 will have to wait till Thursday, because its home time now, tootles!
Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: 10 things, homesick, Japan
Categories : general
Michele the peg-legged
1 02 2009Well, I’ve got a little story to tell. I find it difficult to cope with some aspects of winter. Most people I know from Brisbane absolutely love ‘snow’, and I do understand. Growing up in Australia, there aren’t many places that experience a real winter. But moving to Tokyo, and learning how to cope with winter weather has been a bit of a learning curve.
Last winter we had a very very snowy day whilst I was at work. In the morning I had rode my bicycle to the station, and when I got back there in the evening, I didn’t want to leave it over night. That’s how I learnt that riding in snow is not a good idea, and that wearing shoes with good grip is a good idea. I got stuck in the valley between two hills and couldn’t move anywhere because I just kept slipping over. Luckily for me, a stranger rescued me and my bicycle.
This year has also brought with it some weather problems. On the 9th of January we had some rain in the evening. The following day the temperature reached below zero, so the water on the ground was slightly frozen on my way to work. Now, my usually routine is to ride my bicycle to work, so on the 10th that’s what I set out to do. However I didn’t get very far.
The first corner that I turned that morning had icy blacktop, and I went over. In terms of a fall from my bicycle, it could have been worse. I only had one little scratch, and a couple of bruises. But the thing that has really screwed me over is that my knee hit the frame of my bicycle. It was painful at the time, but after a few minutes of resting the knee, I started to limp my way on to work. I figured at work at least the school nurse could give me some ice and strap my knee for me.
That day was really painful, and everyone told me to go see a doctor. But the thing in Japan is that you don’t go to a family doctor, you go to a Hospital (which is actually more like a walk in clinic). And hospitals have really strange open hours. Basically, unless you get sick between 10am and 6pm on a weekday, there isn’t much option for you.
I had no luck finding a hospital on the Saturday, partly because I had to search in Japanese. And I got myself pretty worked up. Living alone in a non-English speaking country, fairly isolated from my other friends living in Tokyo, and in pain is a scary experience. I felt at the time that it couldn’t have been any worse. I really thank God for the internet in these situations, because I don’t know what I would have done without my parents support on skype.
So, the next day, after not sleeping very well, I rang the closest clinic to my house to see if I could get treated there. That’s when I found out that you don’t see a regular GP in this country, you have to see someone who is a specialist. In my case, an orthopedic doctor. Which meant more searching on the internet to find somewhere.
I did find one website about going to the doctors in Japan that was very very useful. Find a doctor now (http://www.findadoctornow.jp/en/index.html) is actually intended for students from Todai, but is really really useful for any English or Chinese speaker living in the Tokyo area. From there I was able to find a link to the Saitama Medical Association homepage (http://www.saitama.med.or.jp/) which has a search engine (only in Japanese) to find a hospital in Saitama with the kind of services that you need. From there I found that the Minami Koshigaya Hospital was open on a Sunday, and had an orthopedic doctor on staff. So it was off to the station, to catch a taxi there.
Really, I would like to emphasize again how lucky I was able to find a place to go on a Sunday. Japanese hospitals are well known for having very inconvenient open hours. And are almost never open on a Sunday.
Anyway, the doctor spoke some English, enough to worry me I should say. My knee bones weren’t broken, but something was. Unfortunately x-rays only show bones. So, the doctor told me it was probably a ligament or the meniscus that had been broken, and that I was probably looking at surgery. He gave me some pills, a knee splint, and told me to come back as soon as I was able.
On the Tuesday I was able to return with Rei, my friend who is half Japanese. Again the doctor said he couldn’t tell me what was wrong, but it was possible that that it could heal by itself. I was to keep off the leg as much as possible and come back every week for a checkup.
The last time I went back the knee seemed to be getting a little worse. I lost a bit more movement, and at the moment, I can’t bend my knee more than 45 degree without pressure and some pain. Also after working a few days I get pains from standing too much. So, in February I’ll be going to get an MRI and after that we will decide what needs to be done. If worse comes to worse – it will be surgery for me in July (but I hope for March if I need surgery).
Everyday life had been really difficult for me. I can’t stand for long periods of time, and I can’t sit properly on chairs because I can’t bend my knee. Walking everywhere takes double the time it used to, and stairs are very very slow going. By the end of the week I get aches and sharp pains because I use my leg too much. I’m still going to work, but now I catch the bus in the morning, and John gives me a lift home in the afternoons. Luckily for me January and February have many days that I don’t have to work, because the school is holding entrance exams for prospective students.
I can’t go shopping for food as the super markets are too far away for me and I can’t carry too much. I can’t really go anywhere, because catching the train is a lot of effort. On my days off I tend to sit at home with my leg up. That usually works because by the time I go back to work my knee doesn’t hurt. Cooking also doesn’t agree with me on days, due to the standing up thing. My Japanese class is now held on skype because I can’t go into town. Its difficult to clean my house. Washing my clothes is a big challenge.
Basically life is go to work, go home, and sit with my leg up.
It’s certainly not an easy or good time, but it’s not all that bad. John has been great helping me with giving me a lift home. I should have more time to study Japanese (should…. But I surf the internet and watch TV too much). I can get my groceries delivered to my door. And for the first time in my memory I can touch my toes (from having to put socks on without bending my knee).
But, in the end, all I can say is – Do not injure your knees – they are really useful.
Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: daily life, Japan, knee
Categories : general
KARINTOU
11 02 2007I have been introduced to the best snack food ever!

Karintou! Fried dough covered in sugar!
Okay, so that photo kinda makes it look like poo…. But i think they look more like fat worms. But despite that they are sooooooo tasty. Crunchy and sugary… What more could you ask for in a snack food?
In other food and drink adventures, I also discovered Campari and soda water is a bad combination…. so bitter… ugh…. I think I’ll stick to my Umeshu Sour (Plum liqueur) and Cassis Sour (Blackcurrent liqueur).
Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: Drink, Food, Japan
Categories : general
Chinatown – home of kisch
8 01 2007 Today went to Yokohama with Chester from my training group. Twas a fun day ![]()
Yokohama is known for two main things – being a port city, and having one of the biggest Chinatowns in the world. We naturally headed for Chinatown. I think this was the 3rd or 4th time I had been there, but its pretty exciting. Heaps of little stores that sell, ahem, crappy stuff, like panda toys and mugs with hemp leaves printed on them. But it creates a fun atmosphere. I also managed to fill my nikku-man craving somewhat (steamed bread dumplings with sweet pork inside).
We also went to the Kan-Tei-Byo temple, which is for the ‘Holy King Guan’ – inspirational source of spirit and emotion for Chinese people. We lit incense there, which was something I had never done at a temple in Japan before, and with that included access into the temples to look at the idols. Well, actually to pray, but we didn’t participate in that… looked kinda complicated….

After Chinatown we headed to the district with old western style buildings, and walked our way back to Cosmo World, which is a kinda theme park by the water. We went on the rollercoster there and then played some games in the arcade. In particular – the taiko drum game and dance dance revolution…. Both a good workout ![]()
From there we went to Shin Yokohama where there is a ‘Ramen Museum’. It isn’t a Museum as such, more like this little themed, um, indoor place thing. All decked out to look like Japan in the 1950’s or so. There’s about 6 different styles of ramen on offer there, and other old fashioned sweets etc. It was really good, probably the high light of my day since im also craving ramen, heh

Comments : Leave a Comment »
Tags: Chinatown, Japan, ramen museum, yokohama
Categories : general








